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Treating Insomnia with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

Jill Stoddard

By Annabelle Parr and CSAM Insomnia Expert Dr. Melissa Jenkins

We all know what it feels like to get a bad night’s sleep. You know you have a big day tomorrow, but you watch as the minutes and hours tick by as sleep feels elusive. Or you fall asleep but you toss and turn, dreaming about that presentation you have to give at work. You finally fall into a deep sleep and it feels like that is the moment the alarm goes off. A bad night’s sleep on occasion is pretty typical – when we are super stressed it can be harder to sleep soundly.

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When sleep – or lack thereof – becomes a problem…

But for some of us, bad sleep becomes a pattern. It can become a vicious cycle with loads of stress and a lack of sleep where it’s hard to tell what’s causing what. How can you tell if your poor sleep quality is typical or whether it might be time to get some help?

Is it a few bad nights or is it insomnia?

The DSM-V defines insomnia disorder as difficulty falling asleep, difficulty staying asleep, and/or waking up too early and being unable to return to sleep for at least 3 nights per week, lasting at least 3 months. The sleep difficulties must also cause significant impairment in important areas of functioning (such as work, relationships, school, etc.), and occur despite enough opportunity for sleep. It’s also important to rule out whether sleep difficulties are due to another disorder – sleep disorder or otherwise – and are not the result of substance use.

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When to seek help…

Though full clinically diagnosable insomnia has fairly specific criteria, if you are unable to sleep well often enough that it is having a negative effect on your day to day life, it’s worth talking with a professional to see how you might get better sleep. It’s a common misconception that sleep difficulties require medication – such as sleep aids – to be alleviated. However, medication is often a short-term solution, like a band aid; in order to achieve long-term results, it’s important to address the underlying problem.

People don’t often think that therapy can help them with sleep – especially if it feels like sleep is the main problem rather than a byproduct of anxiety. However, there is a particular form of therapy entirely dedicated to the treatment of insomnia: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I).

What is CBT-I?

CBT-I involves a number of elements, and is based on helping the client learn strategies that will help facilitate better sleep. According to Dr. Melissa Jenkins, CSAM’s resident insomnia expert, CBT-I focuses on improving the quality and quantity of one’s sleep. Dr. Jenkins explains some of the core therapy components include… 

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Sleep efficiency therapy: People frequently say there is no pattern to their insomnia, a very common yet frustrating experience. A skilled CBT-I therapist can help make sense of otherwise confusing sleep patterns. By first examining what your current sleep (or lack thereof) looks like, a CBT-I therapist then guides you to change your sleep schedule. This strategy can greatly improve your quality of sleep. It often involves making significant changes to when you go to bed and when you wake up. These changes are often counterintuitive! People with insomnia often find this one of the most difficult but most effective parts of CBT-I. With the help of a skilled therapist, you learn how to regain control over your sleep.

Stimulus control: After extended periods of not being able to sleep in one’s bed, bed often becomes a place of stress (not rest!). The body becomes primed to be alert in bed, the exact opposite of what we need to be able to fall asleep. So, we often say the brain needs to be re-trained!  A CBT-I therapist helps re-train your brain so that you can once again sleep when and where you want to. This involves looking at what you currently do when you cannot sleep as well as things you do in your bed and bedroom that are possibly maintaining insomnia (e.g., watching tv, reading).

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Sleep hygiene and psychoeducation: Another important element of CBT-I is helping you to understand the host of habits that contribute to sleep quality. Sleep hygiene involves everything from the food we eat, to the substances (such as caffeine and alcohol) we consume, the environment in which we sleep, the times of day in which we engage in particular activities such as exercise, our exposure to light (natural and artificial), and our routine leading up to bedtime. It’s not all intuitive, but when we know what can help or hinder our shut eye time, we are empowered to improve our own sleep and our health overall. CBT-I can also help teach natural ways to “trick” the body to either increase sleepiness for bedtime or alertness for optimal daytime functioning.

Relapse prevention: The goal of therapy is to give you the tools you need to create change and empower you going forward. The relapse prevention stage of CBT-I involves consolidating gains made in treatment to maintain good sleep going forward. Helping you to recognize potential triggers for an onset of acute (short term) insomnia and providing you with the tools for preventing relapse back into chronic insomnia is critical. Also, if you need to come back to therapy for a tune up, good news! Clients who return to therapy for a tune up during a relapse tend to recover quickly.

Additional therapy components: Other important aspects of treatment can include stress management and cognitive therapy (how the way you think may be triggering or perpetuating sleep problems).

At the end of CBT-I, the goal is to become your own sleep doctor: To put you back in control of your sleep and to know what to do if problems return in the future. Over the course of CBT-I, you can also learn how to determine your optimal amount of sleep (which is often different than the common myth that everyone needs 8 hours!). CBT-I is short term and typically includes 7 or 8 sessions, but can vary depending on individual needs. Treatment, while structured, is tailored the specific person and their behaviors. CBT-I is offered in individual therapy or group therapy.

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Announcing: CBT-I group therapy is available at CSAM!

Interested in learning more about or receiving CBT-I? Dr. Melissa Jenkins is CSAM’s resident insomnia expert! She offers individual and group CBT-I, and is currently accepting clients for a CBT-I group waitlist in our Carlsbad office. For more information, please contact us at 858-354-4077 or at info@csamsandiego.com

10 Tips to Stop Sleep Anxiety: More Rest, Less Stress (Part 1 of 3)

Jill Stoddard

by Lucas Myers

 

 

Feeling cranky or run down lately? With days getting shorter and the holidays around the corner many of us may feel that we are always running behind. The solution may be more rest through better sleep. In fact, any number of things might be interfering with a good night's sleep. The pressures of family responsabilities and work, unexpected illnesses, relationship issues, or economic hardships can impact anyone. Although many situational factors may be outside your ability to control, there are a few habits that can be adopted which encourage better sleep. By some estimates you may spend as much as a third of your life sleeping. Here are ten simple tips you can start with to make sure you're making the most of it:

 

  1. Timing is everything

Try to go to bed and wake up around the same time every day. Having a consistent schedule reinforces the natural sleeping and waking cycle called the “circadian rhythm” that our bodies have evolved to regulate a good night sleep. Even though it may be tempting, try to maintain your schedule even on weekends and holidays so you don't disrupt that natural pattern. 

  1. Don't try to force it

Do something relaxing before bed – if you lay in bed for more than 15 minutes and do not drift off, rise and repeat – agonizing over sleeplessness will only exacerbate the problem. 

  1. Eating and drinking shouldn't mix with bedtime

Being too hungry, or too full, can create discomfort that keeps you awake. Wait at least 2-3 hours after dinner before bed. Spicy food can cause heartburn. Pay special attention to use of nicotine, caffeine and alcohol before bed. They contain chemicals which can ruin the quality of your sleep. Limit what you drink before bedtime to prevent disruptive late night trips to the restroom. An exception may be non-caffeinated herbal tea or milk; these are soothing for some. 

Stay tuned for parts 2 and 3 of our 10 Tips to Improve Your Sleep. 

REMEMBER: Having an occasional sleepless night is normal, but if you are experiencing a pattern of restless or sleepless nights, don't hesitate to seek an expert, especially if lack of sleep is beginning to interfere with your normal daytime functioning. Contact your doctor to determine whether physical causes may be contributing to sleep problems. If your physical health is sound, contact a psychologist with experience treating sleep problems. Cognitive behavioral therapy and other evidence-based treatments are highly effective for improving sleep. If you are in the San Diego area and you would like to speak with one of our other qualified therapists, you may contact the Center for Stress and Anxiety Management at 858-354-4077 or csamsandiego@gmail.com.

Want more tips? Subscribe to the CSAM RSS feed, and follow us on Facebook or Twitter (@CSAMSanDiego) so you don't miss Parts 2 and 3 of our 10 Tips to Improve Your Sleep and articles on other hot topics such as stress, anxiety, depression, OCD, PTSD, and more. 

References

Dement, William C; Vaughan, Christopher (1999). The promise of sleep: a pioneer in sleep medicine explores the vital connection between health, happiness, and a good night's sleep. New York: Delacorte Press. ISBN 0-385-32008-6.

Dement, WC (2005). "Sleep extension: getting as much extra sleep as possible". Clinics in Sports Medicine 24 (2): 251–268, viii. doi:10.1016/j.csm.2004.12.014PMID 15892922.

Kryger, Meir H; Roth, Thomas; Dement, William C (2011). Principles and practice of sleep medicine (5th ed.). Philadelphia, PA: Saunders/Elsevier. ISBN 978-1-4160-6645-3.

Sleep Tips: Seven steps for better sleep. Mayo Clinic Staff. Retreived on November 25th, 2013 from: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/sleep/HQ01387

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